Predator Awareness

Irreconcilable differences is the primary cause most often listed on divorce papers. Irreconcilable indicates you and that person you are attempting to legally free yourself from are in conflict. Should you happen to have married an individual who dwells in the absence of empathy, and you do not, no amount of reasoning will reconcile your differences.

For you the challenge then becomes reconcilable reasoning for marital divorce agreement and this one sure has the potential to be a doozy. Especially if your “ex” is an absence of empathy predator. A predator that is faced with the possibility of losing control over you without the desire to do so has the potential for creating one bad scene. And you thought the conflicts were bad during marriage.

Foremost, and is no real reflection on who you really are as a person, is that you need to view you from your predator’s perspective. Battling things from your perspective is of no moment. Predators win hands down. However, battling from their perspective evens out the playing field.

In a predator’s eyes you do not rise to their level. They are oh so much smarter and capable then you could ever dream of being (their view.) Frankly you are a mere toy that they will play with until…they no longer have that desire. Usually when someone or something else becomes their focus. Don’t fret this, give the devil its due.

Now for the stuff you are attempting to reasonably split. Reasonable has no part in this. What does is heroism. The appearance of giving you something for nothing and look how great I am. If you think they think all those back breaking efforts and sacrifices you made along the way deserves a reward of such and such. Wrong. In their view, well no view. You haven’t the ability nor skill to be rewarded.

You deserve it. This is not a concept predators have the ability to embrace. In order to view what another deserves you have to have the ability to feel empathetic. No empathy, no deserves about it.

Allow me to re-emphasize, nothing I’ve said or about to say has little to do with your true character. As far as I can see you have two choices in how you approach your predator divorce. You choose to fight or play by their rules to your advantage. That choice is up to you.

Your Divorce from a Predator: A Choice to Fight
Your Divorce from a Predator: Played By Their Rules
Beautiful Pathology of a Predator Liar