Predator Awareness

If you unwittingly had a child with a predator and no longer wish to dwell in the same house, your nightmare for reasonable child support and custody begins now.

Child support is money providing for the care and needs of children. A predator will make their own assessment as to the amount needed, and trust me it will have nothing at all to do with the amount they make. It has everything to do with basic necessities plus leverage.

As you sit and contemplate your next move, the most important thought you must never, ever lose sight of is this:

• A predator does not want what’s best for their child!

Selflessness is outside their realm of thinking. Without empathy, they have no way of making any reasonable assessments of what is best for their child. A predator wants what’s best for them.

You on the other hand, hopefully, put your child’s needs ahead of your own. You determine what’s best by using the power of your empathy.

In divorce with children situations, predators use child support and custody for leverage. If some desire is benefited by paying support, you’ll get it. If not you won’t get anything or at best the amount they feel is reasonable.

What is even more amazing about this child support nightmare is that predators will go to the wall in an all out effort not to pay. If they desire to make you miserable, then buddy that is what is going to happen. You lose, no doubt. Sadly, your child loses so much more.

Making the assumption that a predator will behave in such a way that is best for their children is mistake number one. They won’t because they can’t.

• 2008 Strategies By Custody Experts, Dr. Barry Bricklin And Dr. Gail Elliot (Mens Or Womens Version).

Unfortunately, one way to get reasonable child support out of predator is using heroism leverage. The leverage used is not trying to play their heart strings. Leverage is identifying some of their core desires and using these desires to your benefit.

A predators world is an illusion. The illusion is created through lies and manipulation. One of the key ingredients to a predators existence is their fan club hero worshiping them. Leveraging a predator’s need to be a hero takes finesse. You can do it if you sit back and focus on the big picture of their life.

For example, let’s use their place of employment, a predator works that room. If they believe a child support order to their employer somehow lessons their worth, suggest to them that you will forgo that option for their benefit so long as they pay you consistently on time. Predator gets what they want (maintenance of hero worship from employer/co-worker) and you get what you want (on time payments.)

• The Woman’s Guide To Divorce
• What is Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)?
• Co-Parenting Nightmare
• Things to be Aware of During a Child Custody Court Case
• Frequently Asked Child Custody

Identifying what matters to a predator can be tricky. Think back to the times when you felt less important than let’s say a night out with the fellas. BAM, that fun club (the fellas) is pretty darn important to them. Maintaining that illusion is important, that’s why you took the back seat!

If paying support prevents a predator’s lose of that heroism illusion, you’ll get paid.

Looking through the eyes of a predator, child support payments must be seen as a benefit, be their idea and non-threatening. Otherwise, we’ll see ya in court over, and over, and over, until you finally give up.

In some cases giving up is what’s best for your child ~ leaving a predator clueless.

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